Mike Willis might have said it best...
"...He's a warrior. I picture him there, like one of those movies with arrows sticking out of him all over the place. But he still won't go down. Tell him to keep his shield up and his sword sharp for me."
Monday, June 30, 2008
Even more messages...
From Jason:
As I recall memories of Dom, I can't help but laugh and sometimes cringe.Dominic and I met our freshmen year at BHS in 1994 walking through Elm Grove. I was the kid who so happily said hello every day while he gave me the "why are you always so happy" face. It wasn't until our sophomore year that we became friends when we worked in the student store together. Nothing like a Dorito boat to bring friends' together. Later in the summer, I joined the Benji/Dom friendship as we swam and watched movies everyday (sorry Don, I still have your copy of Fame). That actually went on for two summers. Senior year was about me going home with Dom and eating at the Ambriz' house every other day for lunch. I guess that's how my picture ended up on the fridge...it was more of a "wanted" sign. They were looking for their food and movies. Lol.
After high school, Dom and I both moved to la and the fun continued. We had a standing appointment every week to watch "Oz" with Marshall, and Matt. Dom and I would stay up for hours talking about everything from clothes (I spoke the most about that) to girls, to racial issues. (Remember that night Benji).
We have now been in la for almost ten years and there are so many convos and events to remember, most of which Dom would be better at than me. I LOVE THAT BOY!
Yesterday a guest pastor preached on a "Faith Blast" for whatever you're going through so faith is what I am using today and hope everyone will join me. -Jason
From Russ Travis:
I first met Dominic's dad the day he walked into my office at Cal State, Bakersfield with a request that I substitute a course taken elsewhere for one of our Anthropology electives (I was department chair at the time), and before he left the office it was a done deal. Years later began a several decades relationship (I needed a graphics artist, and Don was the best in town) during which I watched his kids (from a distance) grow up into young, flourishing adults. I never told Don or Jane that I occasionally used the Ambriz family (though not by name), while teaching the Childhood & Society course, as the kind of ideal to aspire towards when involved in raising a family-- as embodied by the remarkable results that both Dom and Amy represent. There is probably no greater accomplishment in life than successful parenting, or one that is more challenging. Jane and Don made it look easy.
As I recall memories of Dom, I can't help but laugh and sometimes cringe.Dominic and I met our freshmen year at BHS in 1994 walking through Elm Grove. I was the kid who so happily said hello every day while he gave me the "why are you always so happy" face. It wasn't until our sophomore year that we became friends when we worked in the student store together. Nothing like a Dorito boat to bring friends' together. Later in the summer, I joined the Benji/Dom friendship as we swam and watched movies everyday (sorry Don, I still have your copy of Fame). That actually went on for two summers. Senior year was about me going home with Dom and eating at the Ambriz' house every other day for lunch. I guess that's how my picture ended up on the fridge...it was more of a "wanted" sign. They were looking for their food and movies. Lol.
After high school, Dom and I both moved to la and the fun continued. We had a standing appointment every week to watch "Oz" with Marshall, and Matt. Dom and I would stay up for hours talking about everything from clothes (I spoke the most about that) to girls, to racial issues. (Remember that night Benji).
We have now been in la for almost ten years and there are so many convos and events to remember, most of which Dom would be better at than me. I LOVE THAT BOY!
Yesterday a guest pastor preached on a "Faith Blast" for whatever you're going through so faith is what I am using today and hope everyone will join me. -Jason
From Russ Travis:
I first met Dominic's dad the day he walked into my office at Cal State, Bakersfield with a request that I substitute a course taken elsewhere for one of our Anthropology electives (I was department chair at the time), and before he left the office it was a done deal. Years later began a several decades relationship (I needed a graphics artist, and Don was the best in town) during which I watched his kids (from a distance) grow up into young, flourishing adults. I never told Don or Jane that I occasionally used the Ambriz family (though not by name), while teaching the Childhood & Society course, as the kind of ideal to aspire towards when involved in raising a family-- as embodied by the remarkable results that both Dom and Amy represent. There is probably no greater accomplishment in life than successful parenting, or one that is more challenging. Jane and Don made it look easy.
Benhams Have Something To Say
From Katie Benham...
When I think about my childhood in Westchester and the people who werea major part of my life, Dom is one of the first people who comes tomind. Although I was younger and not nearly as cool as him, I lookedup to him. I remember how during Halloween season, I would lookforward to coming home from school because Dom and Benji and the restof the crew were coming over to put build the "haunted house." While Ihave always been an admirerer in my own right, one thing that makesDom very special in my life is how much my brothers looked up to him.I had Amy to look up to and the boys had Dom. I appreciate so much thefriendship that Herbie and Dom have had in LA- one of the most solid,positive things my brother has had since he has been there. Back inthe fall, I was spending a lot of time in LA for work. I met up withDom a few times, for drinks at the Sofitel, Mexican food in SantaMonica. I had such a good time just talking to him. There wassomething so comforting and comfortable about hanging out with someoneI've known since I was 5 years old. Additionally, someone who was sonormal and mellow after everything he had gone through. Thinking abouthim running a marathon, with cancer, amazes me. I consider myself adecent athlete, but I haven"t come close to doing that, However, if hecan do it with cancer, I certainly have no excuse not to. Last weekwhen Herbie and I were at the hospital visiting, I was so touched bythe love and support that surrounded Dom which is no surprise becausehe is one of the most special people I have ever known. Thank you,Dom, for being in my life.
From Herbie Benham:
This past Halloween was epic. When I had first decided to have a party, I knew that Dom had to be involved. The dude has the most ridiculous knack for Halloween stuff. He showed up 3 hours before party time and within an hour and a half had my house looking like a horror movie set. It was just like old times. Dominic decorated the haunted house at my parents Halloween party for years, and even as a preteen and young teenager he was way more talented than any Hollywood set dresser.
Dominic's talent. Good Lord. An absolutely unbelievable artist in every medium. He recently, (probably 6 months ago) did some artwork for my band that he probably whipped up in a matter of minutes, but I will treasure as long as I live. I'm not sure if Mattel knows how lucky they are to have had Dom working for them, but it doesn't matter, because his talent speaks for itself. That's the funny thing about him, as huge as a personality as he can be, he is so humble and casual about his work.
When I first moved to LA, 5 years ago, Dom was the first person to call me. I was a screwed up, dysfunctional, confused 19 year old, and the confidence that he exuded on the voice mail he left me was so disarming that I don't think I got back to him for at least 6 months. When I did, he took me under his wing just like he had in Bakersfield. He made Los Angeles seem like a breeze, just another city to be conquered and enjoyed at our leisure.
For the past 3 years, everytime I've seen Dom, he's greated me with some variation of "Whatsup Brother?" Never bro, brah, or any crap like that. Brother. He has truly been my big brother from another mother. I cannot begin to describe what an honor it has been to be on the receiving end of that title. I could not have asked for a better big brother, because looking back, Dom has been there as long as I can remember, always watching my back, every step of the way. Whenever his sister Amy became completely exasperated with myself or my brother Sam when she was babysitting us, she would resort to, "Dominic would never do/say that." That always put us in check. - H
When I think about my childhood in Westchester and the people who werea major part of my life, Dom is one of the first people who comes tomind. Although I was younger and not nearly as cool as him, I lookedup to him. I remember how during Halloween season, I would lookforward to coming home from school because Dom and Benji and the restof the crew were coming over to put build the "haunted house." While Ihave always been an admirerer in my own right, one thing that makesDom very special in my life is how much my brothers looked up to him.I had Amy to look up to and the boys had Dom. I appreciate so much thefriendship that Herbie and Dom have had in LA- one of the most solid,positive things my brother has had since he has been there. Back inthe fall, I was spending a lot of time in LA for work. I met up withDom a few times, for drinks at the Sofitel, Mexican food in SantaMonica. I had such a good time just talking to him. There wassomething so comforting and comfortable about hanging out with someoneI've known since I was 5 years old. Additionally, someone who was sonormal and mellow after everything he had gone through. Thinking abouthim running a marathon, with cancer, amazes me. I consider myself adecent athlete, but I haven"t come close to doing that, However, if hecan do it with cancer, I certainly have no excuse not to. Last weekwhen Herbie and I were at the hospital visiting, I was so touched bythe love and support that surrounded Dom which is no surprise becausehe is one of the most special people I have ever known. Thank you,Dom, for being in my life.
From Herbie Benham:
This past Halloween was epic. When I had first decided to have a party, I knew that Dom had to be involved. The dude has the most ridiculous knack for Halloween stuff. He showed up 3 hours before party time and within an hour and a half had my house looking like a horror movie set. It was just like old times. Dominic decorated the haunted house at my parents Halloween party for years, and even as a preteen and young teenager he was way more talented than any Hollywood set dresser.
Dominic's talent. Good Lord. An absolutely unbelievable artist in every medium. He recently, (probably 6 months ago) did some artwork for my band that he probably whipped up in a matter of minutes, but I will treasure as long as I live. I'm not sure if Mattel knows how lucky they are to have had Dom working for them, but it doesn't matter, because his talent speaks for itself. That's the funny thing about him, as huge as a personality as he can be, he is so humble and casual about his work.
When I first moved to LA, 5 years ago, Dom was the first person to call me. I was a screwed up, dysfunctional, confused 19 year old, and the confidence that he exuded on the voice mail he left me was so disarming that I don't think I got back to him for at least 6 months. When I did, he took me under his wing just like he had in Bakersfield. He made Los Angeles seem like a breeze, just another city to be conquered and enjoyed at our leisure.
For the past 3 years, everytime I've seen Dom, he's greated me with some variation of "Whatsup Brother?" Never bro, brah, or any crap like that. Brother. He has truly been my big brother from another mother. I cannot begin to describe what an honor it has been to be on the receiving end of that title. I could not have asked for a better big brother, because looking back, Dom has been there as long as I can remember, always watching my back, every step of the way. Whenever his sister Amy became completely exasperated with myself or my brother Sam when she was babysitting us, she would resort to, "Dominic would never do/say that." That always put us in check. - H
From Megan Ambriz...
Dominic ... my big cousin. I remember when we were little and ourfamilies would come together every few weeks for dinner at Nana'shouse. I can recall eagerly walking up the drive way to the side ofthe house where we entered through the kitchen, never knowing as alittle kid that the proper entrance to a home is through the livingroom. The smell of good Mexican food penetrating our noses and soundof a family coming together. I remember Amy always wanting to comband fix my hair as though she were preparing for motherhood. I canalso remember Dominic, the only boy surrounded by his big sister andthree female cousins, trying to find something to do that was not"girly."
There are a few family dinners that come to mind when I think of mybig cousin:
The first one is when Dominic came up with a game for us to playoutside one night while the adults were inside talking about "bigpeople" stuff. I remember he wanted to play a variation of hide-and-go-seek. I believe it was called "go gettem" or something of thatnature. I remember all of us hiding and Dominic was the one that was"it." I can still picture him jumping over the big BBQ pit in Nana'sbackyard to chase after one of us. I can recall secretly looking upto him as my big cousin and thinking that he was so cool that nightfor coming up with such a great game.
The second family gathering that comes to mind, is when someone wantedto take a picture of all of us in Nana's kitchen. I believe that thiswas one of the last family photos that we all took together and it isstill on Nana's refrigerator to this day (I will try to scan it in apost it on the website ASAP). It was so long ago, all of us gatheringin the kitchen to eat and converse. I bring this short story up, notjust because we took a family picture, but because after reading allof the blogs, I have come to realize that gathering with close friendsand family to eat and reminisce is still something that Dominic enjoys.
My Big Cousin ... Dominic ... I have so many memories ... too many to fit into just one blog. So I must conclude, that Dominic has alwaysbeen an inspiration to me whether it was looking up to him as a kid or as an adult.
FIGHT ON!!!!!
There are a few family dinners that come to mind when I think of mybig cousin:
The first one is when Dominic came up with a game for us to playoutside one night while the adults were inside talking about "bigpeople" stuff. I remember he wanted to play a variation of hide-and-go-seek. I believe it was called "go gettem" or something of thatnature. I remember all of us hiding and Dominic was the one that was"it." I can still picture him jumping over the big BBQ pit in Nana'sbackyard to chase after one of us. I can recall secretly looking upto him as my big cousin and thinking that he was so cool that nightfor coming up with such a great game.
The second family gathering that comes to mind, is when someone wantedto take a picture of all of us in Nana's kitchen. I believe that thiswas one of the last family photos that we all took together and it isstill on Nana's refrigerator to this day (I will try to scan it in apost it on the website ASAP). It was so long ago, all of us gatheringin the kitchen to eat and converse. I bring this short story up, notjust because we took a family picture, but because after reading allof the blogs, I have come to realize that gathering with close friendsand family to eat and reminisce is still something that Dominic enjoys.
My Big Cousin ... Dominic ... I have so many memories ... too many to fit into just one blog. So I must conclude, that Dominic has alwaysbeen an inspiration to me whether it was looking up to him as a kid or as an adult.
FIGHT ON!!!!!
Dom Stories...
I'm not sure if everyone has read the comments left today; moving. I hear that Don, Jane & Scoob read them aloud this afternoon to each other. For those of you who haven't read them, I added them as their own entry below. Sorry for those who are inundated with emails but I want to make sure everyone has a chance to read these. If you need help posting, just email me & I'll add it whatever you'd like...or go to the comments link at the bottom of an entry & it'll post.
From Jane (Dom's Mom):
One of my most recent memories is during a chemo week when I was in L.A. helping Dom.We would spend a lot of time watching "B" movies, mostly of the horror type and planninghis next meal and trying to prevent nausea. One afternoon Dom was playing a video gameand I was sitting at the desk behind him, I would look up occasionally and ask him how theywork because it seemed to me that he had to keep doing the same thing over and over again.He would patiently explain how they work. Later in the afternoon he was on the phone andand whoever was on the other end of the conversation obviously asked him what he wasdoing and Dom responded "Oh my Mom and I are just hangin' out, playing video games.My mouth dropped open because I'm sure the person on the phone had this visionthat Dom and I were dueling it out on Madden football.
From Nancy Coyle (My Mom):
I've been reading all the great things today about Dom and his friends and adventures. I agree with Susan someone needs to get this down on paper. Good life-travels of life-long friends. One of my best stories (and I've told many people), is when you [Marshall], Matt & Chuck found an apartment overlooking the Otis parking lot and Dom & Don were looking for an apartment for Dom. I thought this has to be the best sign a person could ask for. I just couldn't get over how cool it was for you [Marshall] and Dom to be housemates. I know that's a "mom" story, but it's mine and I'm sticking to it.
From Susan Reep:
Kelly's post just about tore me up. Why was I not Dom's peer so I could have had all that fun with all those wonderful people? (Not that I don't love my life - just love Dom's life too.)It doesn't seem possible that someone as young as Dom and as seemingly quiet could have made what would count as a lifetime of memories for many people? Shannon, Kelly, Matt, Benj, Marsh, Dom - and the rest of your group - who is the writer amongst you? There is a movie or a novel here that many people would like to see or read. It is downright inspiring. [fyi one is in the works]
From Jen Constantine:
I just sat down to write a few reflections I was having while planting flowers in my garden...and first read all of these great stories about Dom and all the good times he's had in his life. Dom, you have such a great network of friends! Just reading and feeling all the love that is headed your way has overwhelmed me! What I sat down to write: as I was planting flowers just now, I was reminded of all the great work days we shared with the Westchester Work Group. It was a happy time with all our families working together, enjoying each other's company, and all the kids growing up together. Fun times! All our love to the Ambriz...Jen and Matt
From Miss Kelly Vee:
I love Dom, so so much. I feel protective of him, like a little brother you just want to scoop up and protect from all he's been through. When I think of Dom it's hard to remember a time when I didn't know him. From a little brother running around with Benji as we older cooler Emerson Eagles (Marsh, Amy, Larkin and I) had our dance parties at the Ambriz and Tackett homes, to having the great privilege of getting to know him as my friend, Dom is a regular fixture in my memories. Dom also represents some of the best times and fondest memories I have. Countless late nights and grub fests with Marshall, Matt and Dom in various living situations from Lilenthal to PCH, laughing until it hurt, being anything but a lady, testing the boundaries of inappropriate and foul and loving every minute of it. The little known fact that Dom allowed me to have his bed for the best 2 weeks of Marshall and Matt's life. The way the telling of a good Bakersfield story could crack him up till he couldn't speak and would turn red with laughter and appreciation. Toasting Pacificos with Matt and I at Casa Escobar days before his second surgery with nervous confidence and resolve. How much pleasure he takes in the Dominos Five for Five deal, even if it's just me him and Matt and appreciating it myself when you are able to go to sleep on his futon after a night of cocktailing with an ample supply of pizza and buffalo wings. Knowning you always have at least one peson who likes to dress up for Halloween as much as you do. To my fondest, our multi stop Kelly & Dom tour of Vegas this past fall. We drank bud light tall boys, discussed how he had a concussion from a lap dance the night before, talked about everything from our past heartaches to our future hopes over enough food to feed a developing nation and almost getting us both kicked out for refusing to wear my shoes inside the casino. But perhaps the thing I love most about Dom is his quiet simplicity. Pleasure in the small things, no need for excess, spend wisely even if you have the money not too, satisfaction in a good t-shirt that can be worn anywhere, honoring a schedule and a timeline to the minute. These are things that I have learned from him, that I admire him for, that I appreciate about him. Dom owns a piece of my heart no one else can touch. His strength and tenacity in this battle have raised the bar for what I know we are all capable of. I love him and his family and am eternally grateful for every single moment I have shared with the most amazing guy I know.
From Matt DeVille:
I couldn't stop smiling when Marsh and I were talking about Dom'sinfectious laugh last tonight. Just like Benji, there are so manystories that come to mind when I think of Dom.I remember watching the Raiders play on Sunday together and Domstanding up and cheering at the tv (actually, more like yelling at thetv, it's the Raiders after all). I remember Dom in college...teaching me how to box, going to Del Taco, absolutely dominatingMarsh and I in basketball, ...going to Del Taco, talking about his artprojects and Bakersfield stories, watching the goriest movies I neverreally wanted to watch, talking about how much he thought he was MarkyMark's twin, the list goes on forever...Dom's quiet strength and unquestioned loyalty are magnetic and I am soincredibly lucky to call him a brother.-Matt
From Benji Tackett:
Dominic and I were in the same kindergarden class. Mrs. Hamby's classroom had the alphabet on the ground and we sat on our last name, he sat on the A and I sat on T. From then on we were friends. We moved up though the grades with teacher's like Monji, Stern and Whaely. From there we progressed to Emerson and BHS. As Marshall asks us to recall memories a flood of them come back.....track meets at Franklin (Dom was always faster)...YMCA basketball games..... skateboarding with Jeff around the OP.....sleepovers and staying up all night to pass rented video games, waking up early in the morning and making movies.Then as we got older we had our first beers together, (a King Cobra 40 oz followed by Strawberry Hill). I think even as we drank those first beers together Dom was reminicing about something. From then on Dom was notorious for always reminicing everytime got together and hung out. He would rember thing no body else could.As we moved on to High school we had a whole new set of avdentures. The first day he got "Big Red" the 60's Buick Electra, we just got into the car and sat, lkistening to the radio. Once we we able to actually drive in the car, we had an even better time.
From Scoob (The GF):
Taking the lead from Marshall, I thought that it might be time for me to share some stories about my time with Dom. I have so many things to say about him that it is hard for me to begin, but I will give it my best shot.Besides reminiscing, another of Dom’s favorite pastimes is going to the movies, which also happens to be one of my favorite things to do. I knew that Dom and I were going to be together for a long time after our first date. It began with an early evening movie and then dinner (because we all know how much and often he likes to eat) at Sharks Cove in Manhattan Beach. We then rented “Superbad”, which we watched at his apartment and toasted our luck with a couple of Bud Lights each. It was a perfect night, or at least we thought it was . This night set the standard for many of our nights together. “Friday night at the movies” became a tradition and I quickly found myself so happy to have found my movie-going partner and so many other things in Dom. Dom and I, just a few weeks ago, had the opportunity to spend some time at my parent’s cabin in Bass Lake. Dom was sicker than a dog the entire trip, but it did not stop him from taking boat rides, watching movies with the family, or taking part in the many family meals that were cooked. Despite being incredibly nauseas, Dom braved the trip (and crazy car ride) because he knew I wanted him to go. What more can a girl ask for?I just wanted you all to know how much I appreciate the amazing support that Dom has surrounding him. I am completely in awe of the amazing family and friends that Dom has, all that have taken me in with open arms. Thank you, thank you, thank you….more stories to follow.
From Jane (Dom's Mom):
One of my most recent memories is during a chemo week when I was in L.A. helping Dom.We would spend a lot of time watching "B" movies, mostly of the horror type and planninghis next meal and trying to prevent nausea. One afternoon Dom was playing a video gameand I was sitting at the desk behind him, I would look up occasionally and ask him how theywork because it seemed to me that he had to keep doing the same thing over and over again.He would patiently explain how they work. Later in the afternoon he was on the phone andand whoever was on the other end of the conversation obviously asked him what he wasdoing and Dom responded "Oh my Mom and I are just hangin' out, playing video games.My mouth dropped open because I'm sure the person on the phone had this visionthat Dom and I were dueling it out on Madden football.
From Nancy Coyle (My Mom):
I've been reading all the great things today about Dom and his friends and adventures. I agree with Susan someone needs to get this down on paper. Good life-travels of life-long friends. One of my best stories (and I've told many people), is when you [Marshall], Matt & Chuck found an apartment overlooking the Otis parking lot and Dom & Don were looking for an apartment for Dom. I thought this has to be the best sign a person could ask for. I just couldn't get over how cool it was for you [Marshall] and Dom to be housemates. I know that's a "mom" story, but it's mine and I'm sticking to it.
From Susan Reep:
Kelly's post just about tore me up. Why was I not Dom's peer so I could have had all that fun with all those wonderful people? (Not that I don't love my life - just love Dom's life too.)It doesn't seem possible that someone as young as Dom and as seemingly quiet could have made what would count as a lifetime of memories for many people? Shannon, Kelly, Matt, Benj, Marsh, Dom - and the rest of your group - who is the writer amongst you? There is a movie or a novel here that many people would like to see or read. It is downright inspiring. [fyi one is in the works]
From Jen Constantine:
I just sat down to write a few reflections I was having while planting flowers in my garden...and first read all of these great stories about Dom and all the good times he's had in his life. Dom, you have such a great network of friends! Just reading and feeling all the love that is headed your way has overwhelmed me! What I sat down to write: as I was planting flowers just now, I was reminded of all the great work days we shared with the Westchester Work Group. It was a happy time with all our families working together, enjoying each other's company, and all the kids growing up together. Fun times! All our love to the Ambriz...Jen and Matt
From Miss Kelly Vee:
I love Dom, so so much. I feel protective of him, like a little brother you just want to scoop up and protect from all he's been through. When I think of Dom it's hard to remember a time when I didn't know him. From a little brother running around with Benji as we older cooler Emerson Eagles (Marsh, Amy, Larkin and I) had our dance parties at the Ambriz and Tackett homes, to having the great privilege of getting to know him as my friend, Dom is a regular fixture in my memories. Dom also represents some of the best times and fondest memories I have. Countless late nights and grub fests with Marshall, Matt and Dom in various living situations from Lilenthal to PCH, laughing until it hurt, being anything but a lady, testing the boundaries of inappropriate and foul and loving every minute of it. The little known fact that Dom allowed me to have his bed for the best 2 weeks of Marshall and Matt's life. The way the telling of a good Bakersfield story could crack him up till he couldn't speak and would turn red with laughter and appreciation. Toasting Pacificos with Matt and I at Casa Escobar days before his second surgery with nervous confidence and resolve. How much pleasure he takes in the Dominos Five for Five deal, even if it's just me him and Matt and appreciating it myself when you are able to go to sleep on his futon after a night of cocktailing with an ample supply of pizza and buffalo wings. Knowning you always have at least one peson who likes to dress up for Halloween as much as you do. To my fondest, our multi stop Kelly & Dom tour of Vegas this past fall. We drank bud light tall boys, discussed how he had a concussion from a lap dance the night before, talked about everything from our past heartaches to our future hopes over enough food to feed a developing nation and almost getting us both kicked out for refusing to wear my shoes inside the casino. But perhaps the thing I love most about Dom is his quiet simplicity. Pleasure in the small things, no need for excess, spend wisely even if you have the money not too, satisfaction in a good t-shirt that can be worn anywhere, honoring a schedule and a timeline to the minute. These are things that I have learned from him, that I admire him for, that I appreciate about him. Dom owns a piece of my heart no one else can touch. His strength and tenacity in this battle have raised the bar for what I know we are all capable of. I love him and his family and am eternally grateful for every single moment I have shared with the most amazing guy I know.
From Matt DeVille:
I couldn't stop smiling when Marsh and I were talking about Dom'sinfectious laugh last tonight. Just like Benji, there are so manystories that come to mind when I think of Dom.I remember watching the Raiders play on Sunday together and Domstanding up and cheering at the tv (actually, more like yelling at thetv, it's the Raiders after all). I remember Dom in college...teaching me how to box, going to Del Taco, absolutely dominatingMarsh and I in basketball, ...going to Del Taco, talking about his artprojects and Bakersfield stories, watching the goriest movies I neverreally wanted to watch, talking about how much he thought he was MarkyMark's twin, the list goes on forever...Dom's quiet strength and unquestioned loyalty are magnetic and I am soincredibly lucky to call him a brother.-Matt
From Benji Tackett:
Dominic and I were in the same kindergarden class. Mrs. Hamby's classroom had the alphabet on the ground and we sat on our last name, he sat on the A and I sat on T. From then on we were friends. We moved up though the grades with teacher's like Monji, Stern and Whaely. From there we progressed to Emerson and BHS. As Marshall asks us to recall memories a flood of them come back.....track meets at Franklin (Dom was always faster)...YMCA basketball games..... skateboarding with Jeff around the OP.....sleepovers and staying up all night to pass rented video games, waking up early in the morning and making movies.Then as we got older we had our first beers together, (a King Cobra 40 oz followed by Strawberry Hill). I think even as we drank those first beers together Dom was reminicing about something. From then on Dom was notorious for always reminicing everytime got together and hung out. He would rember thing no body else could.As we moved on to High school we had a whole new set of avdentures. The first day he got "Big Red" the 60's Buick Electra, we just got into the car and sat, lkistening to the radio. Once we we able to actually drive in the car, we had an even better time.
From Scoob (The GF):
Taking the lead from Marshall, I thought that it might be time for me to share some stories about my time with Dom. I have so many things to say about him that it is hard for me to begin, but I will give it my best shot.Besides reminiscing, another of Dom’s favorite pastimes is going to the movies, which also happens to be one of my favorite things to do. I knew that Dom and I were going to be together for a long time after our first date. It began with an early evening movie and then dinner (because we all know how much and often he likes to eat) at Sharks Cove in Manhattan Beach. We then rented “Superbad”, which we watched at his apartment and toasted our luck with a couple of Bud Lights each. It was a perfect night, or at least we thought it was . This night set the standard for many of our nights together. “Friday night at the movies” became a tradition and I quickly found myself so happy to have found my movie-going partner and so many other things in Dom. Dom and I, just a few weeks ago, had the opportunity to spend some time at my parent’s cabin in Bass Lake. Dom was sicker than a dog the entire trip, but it did not stop him from taking boat rides, watching movies with the family, or taking part in the many family meals that were cooked. Despite being incredibly nauseas, Dom braved the trip (and crazy car ride) because he knew I wanted him to go. What more can a girl ask for?I just wanted you all to know how much I appreciate the amazing support that Dom has surrounding him. I am completely in awe of the amazing family and friends that Dom has, all that have taken me in with open arms. Thank you, thank you, thank you….more stories to follow.
From BreAnne Maltone...
My name is BreAnne and I am one of Scoob's oldest and best friends. Over the last 6 months since she has been dating Dom, I think I have seen her sparkle with happiness more than I've ever seen before. I have always been impressed by the positive outlook that she and the entire "Bring it" crew possess towards this fight- everybody knows that Dom is strong.
I first met Dom in high school. The OP crew from Emerson was much different than the preppy boys we were used to from Fruitvale. They were rough around the edges and very intriguing. Somehow Dom and I got hooked up to go to the freshman formal together. How exciting- my first high school dance! You know how girls are.... I spent weeks finding the perfect dress, tanning, making appointments, and bugging Dom about how to best "match" me.
When we entered the Tackett home that night, all the boys looked incredibly handsome dressed up. Then I saw Dom. He was wearing a black and white pin striped gangster looking tux and giant white Ronald McDonald looking shoes!!!! I remember being so embarrassed!!! Looking back at those pictures now, Dom is the one with his head held the highest and with the biggest smile on his face. He was, by the far, the most handsome date there. :)
I first met Dom in high school. The OP crew from Emerson was much different than the preppy boys we were used to from Fruitvale. They were rough around the edges and very intriguing. Somehow Dom and I got hooked up to go to the freshman formal together. How exciting- my first high school dance! You know how girls are.... I spent weeks finding the perfect dress, tanning, making appointments, and bugging Dom about how to best "match" me.
When we entered the Tackett home that night, all the boys looked incredibly handsome dressed up. Then I saw Dom. He was wearing a black and white pin striped gangster looking tux and giant white Ronald McDonald looking shoes!!!! I remember being so embarrassed!!! Looking back at those pictures now, Dom is the one with his head held the highest and with the biggest smile on his face. He was, by the far, the most handsome date there. :)
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Big Laughs...
Tonight I had some of my most meaningful & wonderful conversations that I can recall regarding any of my friends. I was fortunate enough to speak in detail to Don for a great deal tonight & partook in one of Dom’s favorite pastimes…reminiscing. It was so great to recall why we both love him so much. I was able to share some of my favorite little things with Ruthie & Matt as well. Matt & I were talking about how great a “good Dom laugh” could be. You know those ones that come from deep in his belly & he can’t catch a breath. The boom from his laughter is so contagious. We were in Temecula, of all places, a few months back, celebrating one of Dom’s friend’s (Craig’s) birthday and in the hotel room - Matt & I remember how much laughing we were doing. Primarily Matt & I were being fools and Dom, along with the girls, were just eating it up. It was priceless. Not to mention the memory of Dom being the first up the next morning, dressed and waiting on us b/c he “had to eat” when he “had to eat!”I could type endlessly about my adventures with Dom. As we continue to fight the good fight, I will share some with you, but I really encourage you all to post some of your own. Also, if you can, post your own pictures of Dominic or just email them to me directly and I will for you. coyle.marshall@gmail.com
From Cedars we know that Dom remains in ICU, his fever has broken and he seems to be resting well, without pain. At this point the tumors are continuing to advance and the treatments have been halted. Medically there isn’t much more that can be done to slow down the advancement. His lovely incessant parents, Jane & Don, continue to be by his side, minute by minute, making sure he is comfortable, and cared for. I have come to admire them so much throughout this and take great pride in calling them loved ones of mine. We ask for your continued belief, faith, prayers, miracles, devotion & commitment to the Bring It lifestyle that Dom has lived by for the past 30mns. He is the greatest son, brother, friend, colleague and lover that anyone can ask for; he needs us to be strong for him as his strength is put to its final test.
He may remain in ICU for a while or there is a chance he’ll be moved to a private room at some point. Once that decision is made, I will pass that info along. Until he clears ICU, visitors aren’t encouraged (or allowed by the hospital). Once I get more information I will pass it along to you all.
Bringing It Everyday - M
Friday, June 27, 2008
Resolve in Real Time...
I’m back…not really with the news I was hoping to share with you though. After my latest entry, I was able to have two conversations with Scoob & Don, both sleep deprived, from a long night at Cedars. Dom was moved in the middle of the night to ICU; his breathing had become dangerously irregular & the oxygen levels forced them to move him. Jane, Don & Scoob were there all night, and still this afternoon.
I can tell the frustration of new obstacles continuing to arise are starting to add up on everyone, especially Dom. Right now, he remains in ICU, hooked up to a ventilator, feeding tube, etc. They have run so many tests and taking so much from him, that we all just wish for a day/night of calmness.
The word is Dom is still alert and even a little defiant to a pesky nurse (the first one that we haven’t just loved). The doctors informed the family that generally speaking when a patient is going through radiation with a certain steroid Dom is taking, the tumors tend to swell before they recede and this could be the case & a slight answer to some of his problems. Still no word on the infection as to where or why its here and his temp remains north of 100. Dom needs (deserves) to catch a break.
I wanted to give Scoob, Don & Jane the biggest love in the world for all they’ve done. If you have contact with them, send them a note of support to keep their energy up. Once I get more, especially when he clears ICU, I will shoot another entry out.
Bringing It Everyday – M
I can tell the frustration of new obstacles continuing to arise are starting to add up on everyone, especially Dom. Right now, he remains in ICU, hooked up to a ventilator, feeding tube, etc. They have run so many tests and taking so much from him, that we all just wish for a day/night of calmness.
The word is Dom is still alert and even a little defiant to a pesky nurse (the first one that we haven’t just loved). The doctors informed the family that generally speaking when a patient is going through radiation with a certain steroid Dom is taking, the tumors tend to swell before they recede and this could be the case & a slight answer to some of his problems. Still no word on the infection as to where or why its here and his temp remains north of 100. Dom needs (deserves) to catch a break.
I wanted to give Scoob, Don & Jane the biggest love in the world for all they’ve done. If you have contact with them, send them a note of support to keep their energy up. Once I get more, especially when he clears ICU, I will shoot another entry out.
Bringing It Everyday – M
Latest Update
Afternoon y’all…
It’s the 13th day in Cedars; there have been many supporters & visitors to make the trip in. Some from down the street & some from Bakersfield; highlighted by Nana coming in on Thursday to sit with Dom for a while. I know it means so much to Dom – the fist bumps tell me so.
Last I heard Dom is still in the loving care of the vast medical staff at Cedars; they show their love with X Rays, cat scans, vital checks, dress downs and most recently the application of a feeding tube. Dom hasn’t been able to eat for over a week, and we need to keep those muscles flexed. I know he isn’t close to being ok seeing there was Del Taco AND Smith’s cookies in the room and he didn’t flinch.
A new doctor in the mix, I believe that brings it to 4 chefs in the kitchen, is trying to figure out the infection. The chemo has been put on hold until they can figure out the infection & break the fever. I reported earlier the fever was cracking, but it was over 100 again recently. This seems to be the issue at hand; trying to get that fixed so we can continue to fight the cancer with both barrels. As of now, he is continuing his radiation treatments.
The family is dialed in and someone has been bed side each night. We are trying to get Dominic healthy enough to get into rehab but that seems a little further down the road than first expected. Your continued prayers & support are greatly appreciated.
Bringing It Everyday – M
It’s the 13th day in Cedars; there have been many supporters & visitors to make the trip in. Some from down the street & some from Bakersfield; highlighted by Nana coming in on Thursday to sit with Dom for a while. I know it means so much to Dom – the fist bumps tell me so.
Last I heard Dom is still in the loving care of the vast medical staff at Cedars; they show their love with X Rays, cat scans, vital checks, dress downs and most recently the application of a feeding tube. Dom hasn’t been able to eat for over a week, and we need to keep those muscles flexed. I know he isn’t close to being ok seeing there was Del Taco AND Smith’s cookies in the room and he didn’t flinch.
A new doctor in the mix, I believe that brings it to 4 chefs in the kitchen, is trying to figure out the infection. The chemo has been put on hold until they can figure out the infection & break the fever. I reported earlier the fever was cracking, but it was over 100 again recently. This seems to be the issue at hand; trying to get that fixed so we can continue to fight the cancer with both barrels. As of now, he is continuing his radiation treatments.
The family is dialed in and someone has been bed side each night. We are trying to get Dominic healthy enough to get into rehab but that seems a little further down the road than first expected. Your continued prayers & support are greatly appreciated.
Bringing It Everyday – M
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Tidbits (where did this word come from?)
I know some of you that read this blog are in the "business" - any chance anyone has a screener copy of the HULK or HAPPENING? No bootleg (Tommy) but just something we can borrow for a couple days. I know how much that would lift his spirits.
Also, some people have asked about PayPal…here is the direct link to the page to send money. You need to put in Don’s email (dambriz@webcalligraphy.com) , your email and the amount you’d like to donate. If you need help, just email me.
https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_flow&SESSION=93N-grQZ1BKptg7x7eJV8mWlnmyzHz_NaKk57mIsdlwbthEidd7iAu4taze&dispatch=5885d80a13c0db1f1ff80d546411d7f84f1036d8f209d3d1d1a60b0b34578c41
Also, some people have asked about PayPal…here is the direct link to the page to send money. You need to put in Don’s email (dambriz@webcalligraphy.com) , your email and the amount you’d like to donate. If you need help, just email me.
https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_flow&SESSION=93N-grQZ1BKptg7x7eJV8mWlnmyzHz_NaKk57mIsdlwbthEidd7iAu4taze&dispatch=5885d80a13c0db1f1ff80d546411d7f84f1036d8f209d3d1d1a60b0b34578c41
Dom is in the South Tower #4820, which he'll be in until they move him to rehab on the 7th floor. I will keep you updated on that move. Visitors are ok as long as its not a big group, you realize that Dom might be sleeping, and keep the visits shorter as to not tire him out. I do know the family apprecaites everyone, so if you have a question about visiting, just email me directly.
(picture a very cool gift from his Mattel family!)
Weekend Update...
I am back in Texas and after seven days with Dominic & the Ambriz family here are some observations I took away:
1. Dominic is getting the best care in he possibly can. The nursing staff has been so caring & attentive, while he has more doctors than we can count looking over his situation.
2. Dom has an incredible support group; starting with his family, girlfriend and his friends who are located in Southern California. There hasn’t been a time when he has been left alone at any point since Sunday when he was admitted. In fact some of the aforementioned nurses asked us if we wanted a job seeing we were fast becoming fixtures on the 4th floor.
3. Dom has a tenacious will. On Thursday I stayed the night with him, and to say it was a long night doesn’t do it justice. He wasn’t even able to keep ice chips down earlier in the night as we played Yahtzee with a few visitors. Yet on this night he was to begin his new chemotherapy treatments. I had no idea how he was going to keep these important meds down. We slowly feed them to him, he choked them down as best he could and then I witnessed him for the next four hours strain from vomiting up his meds. It was incredible, and miserable, to watch your friend struggle but he kept fighting, as the sun came up, and he prepared for radiation, the chemo never came up. It was a small victory, but one that should a great sign as to Dom’s will to win.
4. When you are really sick you don’t care what’s on TV – I have seen more TV Land Classics, Disney Channel and I can memorize the channel guide of Cedars by now.
5. There is a long way to go. When I left Dom was drenched in sweat from a fever that was unaccounted for. After copious tests were run, it appears there is a slight tear in his esophagus, which probably has led to an infection. Can my boy catch a break please?!? Anyways, he is on antibiotics, and the procedure to fix the problem seems routine & non-invasive. So that problem should be fixed shortly. Last update I heard is he isn’t communicating yet & the infection has really zapped his strength so walking hasn’t happened too much either.
So many stories from week-one in the hospital; some serious and some downright hilarious. It’s important for us all to keep our wits, sanity and faith in these times. Thanks again for all your continued words & blessings; please keep them coming. I can’t hear enough how much Dom has affected y’all (I must be back in Texas).
1. Dominic is getting the best care in he possibly can. The nursing staff has been so caring & attentive, while he has more doctors than we can count looking over his situation.
2. Dom has an incredible support group; starting with his family, girlfriend and his friends who are located in Southern California. There hasn’t been a time when he has been left alone at any point since Sunday when he was admitted. In fact some of the aforementioned nurses asked us if we wanted a job seeing we were fast becoming fixtures on the 4th floor.
3. Dom has a tenacious will. On Thursday I stayed the night with him, and to say it was a long night doesn’t do it justice. He wasn’t even able to keep ice chips down earlier in the night as we played Yahtzee with a few visitors. Yet on this night he was to begin his new chemotherapy treatments. I had no idea how he was going to keep these important meds down. We slowly feed them to him, he choked them down as best he could and then I witnessed him for the next four hours strain from vomiting up his meds. It was incredible, and miserable, to watch your friend struggle but he kept fighting, as the sun came up, and he prepared for radiation, the chemo never came up. It was a small victory, but one that should a great sign as to Dom’s will to win.
4. When you are really sick you don’t care what’s on TV – I have seen more TV Land Classics, Disney Channel and I can memorize the channel guide of Cedars by now.
5. There is a long way to go. When I left Dom was drenched in sweat from a fever that was unaccounted for. After copious tests were run, it appears there is a slight tear in his esophagus, which probably has led to an infection. Can my boy catch a break please?!? Anyways, he is on antibiotics, and the procedure to fix the problem seems routine & non-invasive. So that problem should be fixed shortly. Last update I heard is he isn’t communicating yet & the infection has really zapped his strength so walking hasn’t happened too much either.
So many stories from week-one in the hospital; some serious and some downright hilarious. It’s important for us all to keep our wits, sanity and faith in these times. Thanks again for all your continued words & blessings; please keep them coming. I can’t hear enough how much Dom has affected y’all (I must be back in Texas).
Friday, June 20, 2008
Biz Nas...
It's late & it just got started...
I have been getting such wonderful blessings and continued support to pass along to the Ambriz; please keep it coming. Many have also asked about donating, cooking, etc...here's what I recommend as of tonight...
Gift Cards - Gas, Ralph's, Longs, BlockBuster, Trader Joe's, etc...
For those of you who've asked about a straight money donation to help out, it is of course appreciated and you can easily do so to Don Ambriz' PayPal - dambriz@webcalligraphy.com or an old fashion check in the mail (so 1998).
But seriously, prayers and support is what's needed most. Dom will be in Cedars for sometime so if you are able to say hello, or give a card, please do so. There is someone at the apoartment daily picking up the mail and getting the well-wishes to Dom.
Here's the address one more time...
2121 Pacific Coast Hwy #2
Hermosa Beach, CA 90254
I have been getting such wonderful blessings and continued support to pass along to the Ambriz; please keep it coming. Many have also asked about donating, cooking, etc...here's what I recommend as of tonight...
Gift Cards - Gas, Ralph's, Longs, BlockBuster, Trader Joe's, etc...
For those of you who've asked about a straight money donation to help out, it is of course appreciated and you can easily do so to Don Ambriz' PayPal - dambriz@webcalligraphy.com or an old fashion check in the mail (so 1998).
But seriously, prayers and support is what's needed most. Dom will be in Cedars for sometime so if you are able to say hello, or give a card, please do so. There is someone at the apoartment daily picking up the mail and getting the well-wishes to Dom.
Here's the address one more time...
2121 Pacific Coast Hwy #2
Hermosa Beach, CA 90254
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Thursday Morning...
Good morning everyone; the word from Jane is that Dom slept well through the night. He just finished round two of radiation this morning & has been passing the time with napping & Leave it to Beaver. His platelets level is approaching the necessary 100k level…what does Dom get for such an accomplishment…a new dose of Chemo!!!!
Last night we played the world’s slowest round of dominos with Scoob & Dom taking on Jane & myself; it was fantastic. Even in his recent state Dom was still able to take Domino at the end. Wendy is in town for her [hopeful] last round of chemo; she popped in looking well & promised to return later today to challenge Dom to an arm wrestling match.
He still isn’t talking, keeping food down or moving too well, but for those of us who’s seen him every day this week, he is getting better each day, even in the smallest of amounts.
Here’s a pic of some more Smith’s cookies…these are of the customized variety. I’m not sure why there is one missing at 10am ;-)
Last night we played the world’s slowest round of dominos with Scoob & Dom taking on Jane & myself; it was fantastic. Even in his recent state Dom was still able to take Domino at the end. Wendy is in town for her [hopeful] last round of chemo; she popped in looking well & promised to return later today to challenge Dom to an arm wrestling match.
He still isn’t talking, keeping food down or moving too well, but for those of us who’s seen him every day this week, he is getting better each day, even in the smallest of amounts.
Here’s a pic of some more Smith’s cookies…these are of the customized variety. I’m not sure why there is one missing at 10am ;-)
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
One day at a time...
Tuesday was better than Monday and Wednesday was better than Tuesday; I believe there is some algebraic formula saying that Thursday will be even better…we’ll have to call Benji for a ruling.
Today I returned to the hospital around Noon and Dom had his lime green rubber band situated around his feet doing arm curls. The physical therapist brought one up for Dom to workout with; if he can rehab physically for 3hrs a day he can stay in the hospital while he goes through radiation. I don’t think 3hrs a day will be an issue with him, do you?
We’ve had the occupational, physical and speech therapist all in here working with Dom this week. He’s such a competitor that when they walk into the room he completes their tasks as though they were made for first graders (no offense to any first graders reading this). He took very small steps to the front door of his room, with the aide from a walker, and then was able to rest for an hour in a standard chair today. The things we get excited for.
The results of the TP (aka spinal tap) all came back negative…for those of you like me; negative in the medical world is a good thing. There are no cancerous proteins in the spine at this time. So we know right now what we are fighting – new cancer in the brain and we know what the first plan of action is – 20 treatments of radiation. 19 to go after today.
I wanted to give a big virtual hug for those loving messages that have been emailed/voicemailed/texted/posted/spoken/created/etc. The Ambriz all know you are behind them, waiting to help, sending prayers and completely invested in Dom’s fight. A special thanks to those who have helped out with dinners this week helping save valuable time and money – Jessica, Wendy, Matt & Herbie…you are all so special.
I will let you know what Thursday brings. I’m hoping Dom can start to keep his food down personally; I know the boy likes to eat. He’s still not communicating, but that will come. Thanks again everyone & as always we will continue to Bring It to this disease.
Today I returned to the hospital around Noon and Dom had his lime green rubber band situated around his feet doing arm curls. The physical therapist brought one up for Dom to workout with; if he can rehab physically for 3hrs a day he can stay in the hospital while he goes through radiation. I don’t think 3hrs a day will be an issue with him, do you?
We’ve had the occupational, physical and speech therapist all in here working with Dom this week. He’s such a competitor that when they walk into the room he completes their tasks as though they were made for first graders (no offense to any first graders reading this). He took very small steps to the front door of his room, with the aide from a walker, and then was able to rest for an hour in a standard chair today. The things we get excited for.
The results of the TP (aka spinal tap) all came back negative…for those of you like me; negative in the medical world is a good thing. There are no cancerous proteins in the spine at this time. So we know right now what we are fighting – new cancer in the brain and we know what the first plan of action is – 20 treatments of radiation. 19 to go after today.
I wanted to give a big virtual hug for those loving messages that have been emailed/voicemailed/texted/posted/spoken/created/etc. The Ambriz all know you are behind them, waiting to help, sending prayers and completely invested in Dom’s fight. A special thanks to those who have helped out with dinners this week helping save valuable time and money – Jessica, Wendy, Matt & Herbie…you are all so special.
I will let you know what Thursday brings. I’m hoping Dom can start to keep his food down personally; I know the boy likes to eat. He’s still not communicating, but that will come. Thanks again everyone & as always we will continue to Bring It to this disease.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Greetings from Cedars...
...where the “strongest minds in the business are trying to cure Dominic.”
It’s my pleasure to get to sit with Dominic tonight; the day was a flurry of activity that seemed to drain Dom, so he is resting soundly now. It’s me, the hum of his machines & some Smith’s cookies that I can’t promise will be waiting here when the Ambriz return tomorrow.
We were all able to talk to the doctors today & get some of our questions answered. I want to reiterate that the doctors here really care about Dom & his main doctor, Rudnick, told Don how much Dominic inspired him. It was a good moment for the family.
The results of the MRI show no tumor or growth development in the spine area; they were all negative! This is very good & somewhat surprising news considering the alternative. It was a huge relief to hear this from the doctor. That information notwithstanding, Dom’s cancer is aggressively changing in his brain and starting to make the doctors very nervous. It is the 30th month Dom’s been fighting this (much longer than most) & its about this time the disease is known to switch things up, become more aggressive & really make things difficult for Dom. He isn’t going to have any of it. Starting immediately Dom will start a second round of radiation – this will be a painstaking process of 5 days a week for 4 weeks. This is rare, if you were thinking it, seeing Dom already had a 6wk radiation treatment a couple years back, but the positive possibilities out-weigh the long-term risks. Each of the doctors feel there needs to be an immediate reversal of the cancer cells in his brain and this is the best way to accomplish that.
As Dom’s strength returns, we will look at different chemo approaches, and possible alternative choices of treatment, but in the meantime, he will be faced with 4wks of radiation. He’ll be ready for it, make no mistake, as will all his family & friends. This is the only treatment scheduled at this time & we will need to see if it is effective before another solution can be tried. Also, Dom’s case will be presented to the Tumor Board on Wednesday to see if there are any other suggestions that can be made.
Many of you have contacted the family or me directly and we thank you very much. Most of you have offered to send something to show your love & support, which is greatly appreciated. I promise I read any message sent to me to Dom or his family, so please keep them coming. As for those who wish to get some flowers, candy, etc – thank you. I ask that you refrain from such offerings & if you wish to get something please do so in the means of a gas card or grocery card. The personal touch can come in the form of a note, but driving to the hospital daily for a month, is going to add up quickly. This is where you can have an impact of the recovery process as he fights on.
Thank you again for all your prayers; today was a “good” day in this fight. The news was mixed and things are much more serious than they were probably the last time you saw or heard from Dom. But we didn’t get the worse news we could’ve today and as Scoob & Jane were saying all day, “one day at a time.” That’s what we do, we BRING IT one day at a time – that time will continue to add up with your love & support. – M
If you are sending a gas/grocery/etc to Dom:
2121 Pacific Coast Highway #2
Hermosa Beach, CA 90254
It’s my pleasure to get to sit with Dominic tonight; the day was a flurry of activity that seemed to drain Dom, so he is resting soundly now. It’s me, the hum of his machines & some Smith’s cookies that I can’t promise will be waiting here when the Ambriz return tomorrow.
We were all able to talk to the doctors today & get some of our questions answered. I want to reiterate that the doctors here really care about Dom & his main doctor, Rudnick, told Don how much Dominic inspired him. It was a good moment for the family.
The results of the MRI show no tumor or growth development in the spine area; they were all negative! This is very good & somewhat surprising news considering the alternative. It was a huge relief to hear this from the doctor. That information notwithstanding, Dom’s cancer is aggressively changing in his brain and starting to make the doctors very nervous. It is the 30th month Dom’s been fighting this (much longer than most) & its about this time the disease is known to switch things up, become more aggressive & really make things difficult for Dom. He isn’t going to have any of it. Starting immediately Dom will start a second round of radiation – this will be a painstaking process of 5 days a week for 4 weeks. This is rare, if you were thinking it, seeing Dom already had a 6wk radiation treatment a couple years back, but the positive possibilities out-weigh the long-term risks. Each of the doctors feel there needs to be an immediate reversal of the cancer cells in his brain and this is the best way to accomplish that.
As Dom’s strength returns, we will look at different chemo approaches, and possible alternative choices of treatment, but in the meantime, he will be faced with 4wks of radiation. He’ll be ready for it, make no mistake, as will all his family & friends. This is the only treatment scheduled at this time & we will need to see if it is effective before another solution can be tried. Also, Dom’s case will be presented to the Tumor Board on Wednesday to see if there are any other suggestions that can be made.
Many of you have contacted the family or me directly and we thank you very much. Most of you have offered to send something to show your love & support, which is greatly appreciated. I promise I read any message sent to me to Dom or his family, so please keep them coming. As for those who wish to get some flowers, candy, etc – thank you. I ask that you refrain from such offerings & if you wish to get something please do so in the means of a gas card or grocery card. The personal touch can come in the form of a note, but driving to the hospital daily for a month, is going to add up quickly. This is where you can have an impact of the recovery process as he fights on.
Thank you again for all your prayers; today was a “good” day in this fight. The news was mixed and things are much more serious than they were probably the last time you saw or heard from Dom. But we didn’t get the worse news we could’ve today and as Scoob & Jane were saying all day, “one day at a time.” That’s what we do, we BRING IT one day at a time – that time will continue to add up with your love & support. – M
If you are sending a gas/grocery/etc to Dom:
2121 Pacific Coast Highway #2
Hermosa Beach, CA 90254
Buy Mattel!!!
The Mattel Family has been unbelievable to Dominic; their support never stops. Here is a small picture of the card they made today...
Day two of Round 3...
Dom has been at Cedars for a day now – and he has been doing very well. Sleep has been difficult seeing he has some annoying hiccups but besides that, things are status quo. Earlier today his nurse, Frankie, came in and challenged him to an arm wrestling contest. Dom took Frankie down…twice. This got his competitive juices going & cured his hiccups…temporarily.
Scoob patiently sat with Dom during his spinal MRI & Dom has been sleeping ever since. In the meantime Scoob’s mom drove down, Smith smiley face cookies in tow, and Herbie dropped in. They were here to received the first bit of GOOD news – the first portion of his MRI has come back with no signs of tumors. This is in the lumbar (lower) portion of his back. We still have two areas to go, but this is a little good news we all wanted to hear. When we get the results of the last 2 sections of the MRI, I will let you know. Time line unknown.
Dom is getting his vitals checked & a spinal tap (Lumbar Puncture) now…it’s a Monday!
Thanks, for your support.
**please forward this blog to anyone, even if you think they already get it. I want to make sure the distribution complete**
Scoob patiently sat with Dom during his spinal MRI & Dom has been sleeping ever since. In the meantime Scoob’s mom drove down, Smith smiley face cookies in tow, and Herbie dropped in. They were here to received the first bit of GOOD news – the first portion of his MRI has come back with no signs of tumors. This is in the lumbar (lower) portion of his back. We still have two areas to go, but this is a little good news we all wanted to hear. When we get the results of the last 2 sections of the MRI, I will let you know. Time line unknown.
Dom is getting his vitals checked & a spinal tap (Lumbar Puncture) now…it’s a Monday!
Thanks, for your support.
**please forward this blog to anyone, even if you think they already get it. I want to make sure the distribution complete**
New Communication Style...
Hey everyone...we are going to try a new way to communicate. Hopefully Blogging will make it easier for you to get information from the Ambriz' & you can post your messages too which I will gladly share with Dom.
Just so we all know Dom is at Cedars right now & just finished a two hour spinal-mri and is sleeping soundly. Scoob is here, along with his family, and some wonder Mattel family members came by to help decorate the room.
I will send out more later...thanks...M
Just so we all know Dom is at Cedars right now & just finished a two hour spinal-mri and is sleeping soundly. Scoob is here, along with his family, and some wonder Mattel family members came by to help decorate the room.
I will send out more later...thanks...M
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